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This is crucial for you right now because God intends for you to have real people in your life who will encourage and support you.
In addition, as people, we are highly influenced by the company we keep.
I am in Round Top Texas, the place where Joanna Gains from Fixer Upper from HGTV loves to find great antiques. We’ve been gathering together for ten years now and it’s amazing the love and support a group of godly women can give. I’m so appreciative of all your comments and how you pray, love, and support one another in this journey of growth. But my question is what if what really matters is the very thing you need to avoid? My husband left when his addictions were exposed within the church and family. First, it’s important to give yourself adequate time to grieve.
I hope you are all planning to attend the upcoming CONQUER Conference, Be Brave: Grow Strong on October I loved your newsletter, The Intentional Life I read recently. You have experienced a very real loss and right now a lot of your emotional and even physical energy will be taken up processing this loss and accepting it. You can’t wisely build a new life until you are able and ready to let go of the old. It’s the emotional gut-wrenching process of letting go and saying goodbye. Give yourself a lot of self-compassion while at this stage and hopefully you have some good support from girlfriends or your church too.
How do you begin to pick up the pieces of your shattered life and your sense of self?
There is a big gap between knowing something and coming to emotionally accept it. Second, it’s important that you not forget that your life is not over even if your marriage is.
You know your marriage is over and your family is forever changed, but coming to truly accept that reality takes time and that process is called grieving. That means you still have a purpose because if you didn’t, God would take you home. Many women have to answer this question for themselves even if their family hasn’t shattered like yours has. Even if you have an intact family, kids grow up, get married, and move away.
He will show you how to do it and where to go (Psalm 32:8). When those fail or are non-existent, a woman begins to question her value and her purpose. But being victimized does not mean you have to embrace a victim mindset. Studies done on the psychology of women have shown that a woman’s sense of identity rests in her connection to those around her, especially her closest relationships. it’s tempting to get stuck in self-pity and victim mindset. People are victimized by other people’s sin such as you have been with your husband’s sin.Click To Tweet As part of the community, you're automatically enrolled to receive my email newsletter twice a month.Every two weeks, you'll be encouraged and challenged with practical, biblical and life-changing truths that will help you in your life and in your relationships.
Therefore, it’s very important that a woman not revolve her entire life around her husband and their marriage because it is possible that one day those things will be gone.