Christian men on dating
However, as the years have passed by, the dates I've had with men at church have been rather few and far between.And I'm not the only woman who has found this to be true. On a mission to answer this question, and many others, I talked informally with a group of men in New York City, and then sat down with the guys from Bel Air Presbyterian to chat about the pursuit of love, about Christian dating, and about why on earth they don't want to date women who go to their church.Those quotation marks and exasperated eye roll are an indication that, no, I do not mean that I am repelled by believers.It means I am so over the fake Christians who declare their faith for attention, then treat you the same, if not worse, than men who claim nothing at all.Men who wanted to wait until marriage to have sex, but you know, everything else is fine.Men who claimed this huge testimony of healing in public, yet continued the practices they were supposedly “healed” from in private, asking you not to tell.
You’re probably thinking, “oh so a perfect Christian who expects someone else to be perfect.” No. I don’t hide my personal struggles because they’re part of the process, but if you tell me you don’t have the same struggles-- that you will lead with a Godly heart, and then in private you’re someone else…that’s not OK.Don’t get clouded by what they claim, but decide by how they act in private.Above all else, and this applies in any relationship, don't ever let someone treat you like you're beneath them.11 Reasons Men Who Go To Church Make The BEST Husbands As a single Christian woman, this isn't exactly what I wanted to hear.I've been attending Christian churches for a substantial chunk of my life, and it stands to reason that I've often thought I might meet my future husband there.
Don't let them have that power of you, and wield it so that they can take advantage.