Advantages to dating an older woman
It appears I’m going to have to create a new phrase. And, unlike the 23-year-old who gets tanked and throws shade at your ex, she’s got class. Any man who’s had a serious relationship with a woman over the age of 30 can attest to the accuracy of that one. Instead, the older woman is dominated by A) years of negative experiences with men that color her view of them, and B) years of society telling her that she’s a “lady” and that she deserves a man to kiss her ass and serve her, or else he’s not a “gentleman”, which is the over-33-woman term for She doesn’t need you; she wants you.
It’s something I see a lot of, yet there is no word/phrase to describe it. I think someone published a book by that title a few years ago, but I don’t care. Gender myopia is the condition of being so narrowly focused on what your gender likes, you are completely blinded to the realities of what the other gender likes. I’ve mentioned before that some of the biggest gold diggers I’ve ever encountered were women who made high incomes, as in ,000 a year or more. Yes, everyone knows that older women never get bitchy-jealous about exes. If she’s gotten this far on her own, regardless of whatever relationships are behind her, she’s been through enough ups and downs to know she can handle just about anything.
Then come back and tell me which age group is almost completely dominated by their “checklists” when it comes to men and dating. I once went out with a young man from Queens who only dated older women because younger ladies, he found, couldn’t do a thing without checking in with 15 of their friends.
Then go on ten first dates with women under the age of 27.
Many of the things that drive people away from online dating can be headed off at the pass with some preparation.
The first step to overcoming your frustration with online dating is to adjust your mindset and expectations accordingly.
When you date a younger woman, he said, you also date all her friends, and it’s “a pain in the fucking ass.” You can’t just go out and do your own thing because she must receive approval from a larger governing body.
Online dating takes a different attitude and skill-set than, say, making cold approaches at a bar or flirting with someone you met at a house party.
To start with, you have to rethink the way that you present yourself.
You think the other gender wants exactly what you want. When men email pictures of their genitalia to women thinking “Oh yeah, that’ll turn her on,” that’s gender myopia. By the way…a simple question: Would you rather date a woman with no money who expects you to pay for the entire cost of an expensive date, or a woman who makes decent money who expects the same? And whereas younger women are putting you through the paces to see if you can provide her with a life, an identity, and a future, an older woman already knows who she is and what she wants to do—she’d just love someone to share it with.
When women brag on their online profiles about how “sassy” they are and their college degrees, that’s also gender myopia. Of course the best woman is one who want you to pay for the date at all because she’s truly independent, but if you had to pick between one of the two above women, which of them would probably make a better long-term girlfriend? Younger women put men through these “paces” but older women don’t? Has this woman ever been on a first date with a woman over 33?
It has been happening before the great grand parents of everyone reading this.